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It is with heartfelt sorrow that
the family announces the passing of John Mayer of Pickering, Ont. in
Scarborough General Hospital on Jan. 29, 2011 at age 87. He is now
together again with his beloved wife Anne of 60 years who passed away on Thursday, March 8, 2007
at age 80 years. They are survived by sons John Mayer and his wife Marla Weichsel of Cape Canaveral,
Florida, Dan and his wife Linda Mayer of Pickering and
Larry Mayer of Toronto. Loving Grandparents to Scott, Steven and Nicole. Cherished
Great Grandparents to Thomas, Hannah, Kathryn,
and beloved aunt to Frank Jung, Catherine and her husband Allan Freiter, Patricia and her husband Allan Bennett.
They are also survived by their
sister-in-law Betty Mayer of Tillsonburg. Predeceased by Anne's brother Adam
and his wife Veronica Jung, and John's brother George Mayer. At the
family’s request memorial donations may be made to the
Canadian Cancer
Society, the
Kidney
Foundation of Canada, the
Heart and Stroke Foundation or the Diabetes Association.
Personal condolences may be added to this web page.
Contact John Mayer
(Jr.)
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I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I and you are you...Whatever we were to each other that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you all used. Put no difference into your tone; Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was: there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well. |
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My Mom was always there when we needed her. She had more friends than anyone could ever hope for in a life filled with joy and happiness. It took her at least two weeks of preparation to mail all of the Christmas cards out to friends and family. Her cheery smile and love of life affected everyone around her and I know we are all going to miss that. No one really dies until their memories are forgotten and my mother will live on in everyone’s heart forever. I love you Mom! When I played my guitar in the basement you sat on the stairs and helped me write "Parry Sound Blues". You were my biggest fan. Your guidance and inspiration helped me to succeed and become a better person. You taught me to be independent even though it meant doing laundry and dishes. I thank you for that now. I can only hope that your spirit is looking down on all of us right now. We are celebrating your life and the love that you shared with everyone around you. We love you and miss you.
Ann Landers once said, “Inside every eighty-year-old is a
thirty-five-year-old asking, ‘What (the hell) happened?’” My father had a
young, alert and inquisitive mind even though his body finally failed him.
He always tried to learn new things, expand his knowledge and would enter a
debate about anything that he was passionate about. Dad never hesitated to
tell you what he thought. He was a rabble rouser and never missed an
opportunity to push your buttons with a smile on his face....
Read the full
tribute to my Father |
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We Love You and Miss You
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You will be in our Hearts Forever |
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Anne, John, Betty and George (and Sadie) in Cape Canaveral |
John, Helen, Connie, Anne and John (Jr.) (and Sadie) |
John (Jr.), Nicole, John and Anne at the Melbourne Jai Alai |
Anne and John in Cape Canaveral getting the Christmas turkey ready. |
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Anne and Helen getting rid of bugs in Florida :-) |
Nicole, John and Anne Cruisin' out of Port Canaveral |
Marla's Mom and Anne's friend Ginnie passed away in July, 2006 |
Helen and Bruce Johnson. Helen passed away right after Mom on Mon. Mar., 19th, 2007 |
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The Good Life |
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Marla and Anne shopping at Coyle's in Tillsonburg |
John and Anne |
Anne, Betty, John and Marla at Betty's house for dinner |
Larry's 40th at Dan and Linda's in Pickering |
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John, Anne, Marla and Larry at John (Jr's.) cottage on Lake Katchewanooka |
John, Anne, Bruce and Helen enjoying dinner |
The Family in Tillsonburg |
Anne at Dan and Linda's house in Pickering |
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Special Times and Friends |
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John enjoying a Beer on his 84th BD with Grandsons Scott & Steven |
John at 84 with Son Dan |
The family at the cottage on Big Bald Lake |
Fred, Gloria, Helen, Teresa, Anne and Connie |
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Thomas, John (Jr.) & John (Sr.) |
John (Sr.) and Marla |
John and Anne's 50th wedding anniversary |
Anne, John and Marla at home in Tillsonburg |
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John & Anne Courting |
Four Generations of Mayer Men |
John in his backyard on Gilroy Dr. in Scarborough |
John and Son Larry |
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Anne in her late teens |
John and Anne 1947 |
John and Anne - St. Pat's |
Anne and Betty |
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Photos from John's Life Celebration at Dan & Linda's House, Feb. 4, 2011 |
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Lifelong Friends Lou & Nancy Schrank |
John & Anne's Heart Shaped Urn |
Thomas, Marla, Hannah, John (Jr) and Katy |
Brothers Larry, John & Dan |
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Cousin Christine Rohm |
Thomas, Marla & Hannah |
Steven & Pat |
Grandson Steven & Kim |
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Larry, John, Dan, Thomas & Hannah |
Dan's Snowy Street in Pickering |
Steven, Linda & Marla in Front of Steven's House |
Hannah and Katy |
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Thomas and Greg |
Granddaughter Nicole and Greg |
Dan's Supportive Neighbors - The Abominable Porch Men |
Steven, Larry, John and Dan Toasting Dad with a Beer, a Brandy & a Snow Shovel |
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Ann Landers once said, “Inside every eighty-year-old is a thirty-five-year-old asking, ‘What (the hell) happened?’” My father had a young, alert and inquisitive mind even though his body finally failed him. He always tried to learn new things, expand his knowledge and would enter a debate about anything that he was passionate about. Dad never hesitated to tell you what he thought. He was a rabble rouser and never missed an opportunity to push your buttons with a smile on his face. Since Mom passed away in March of 2007, my dad has never been quite the same. A broken heart is hard to mend. They shared sixty wonderful years together, raised a family, paid the mortgage, bought a cottage, vacationed in Hawaii and became Florida snowbirds – not a bad life! The good times at the cottage on Big Bald Lake are probably the fondest memories that this family will cherish forever. My Father gave me his Father's watch several years ago. He stood before me with my Grandfather’s gold pocket watch in his hand and told me that traditionally it now belonged to me, the eldest son. “You need to wind it,” he said, “but it still keeps pretty good time.” Dad was seventy-nine at the time. I had not seen this watch for a very long time and it was now telling me something I did not want to hear. My father would eventually be in danger of leaving this Earth and everyone who loves him. That time has come and he is now with my mother again forever. My father was always there for his sons. He took us fishing and hunting. He taught us to appreciate nature, how to fix things and work hard. He was a jack-of-all trades and master of some. He loved to build things, especially out of wood. My dad taught us how to make our way in this world and he did it with his own unique style and sense of humor. He worked hard to support his family and we all thank him for it. I also thank him for not killing me when I ran over the horseshoe pegs at the cottage and wrecked the track on the snowmobile. I thank him for putting up with my rock band in the basement when he could barely hear the TV. I thank him for taking me duck hunting with Uncle George Rohm when the last thing they needed was a teenage nimrod in the boat asking stupid questions. But most of all, I thank him for the love that he gave to his family each and every day. My Dad and Mom built a huge network of friends over the years and all of the Christmas cards took at least a week or two to organize and send out. The memory of my father will live on as long as his family, grandkids, great grandchildren and friends are alive and well. I know he will live on in my heart and mind forever. I know your spirit surrounds us all right now Dad and this quote by Winston Churchill is what I think you would be telling us. “I am ready to meet my Maker. Whether my Maker is prepared for the great ordeal of meeting me is another matter.” We love you Dad. |
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Some are addressed to John Sr. after Anne passed away. I have designated
John (Sr.) or (Jr.) to avoid any confusion. |
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Dear John and Marla: Our condolences on the loss of your mom and good friend. Your tribute to her is beautiful. You are right, as long as their memory survives they are always with us. Please extend our sympathy to your family...especially your dad. 60 years...pretty remarkable. But then I guess your parents are just that. The proof is the family they raised and the wealth of memories they leave behind. Cry over them, laugh over them but be sure to share them with your grandchildren. Our love to you both...Martha and Joe Boehm Hi John and Marla...Hope you made it through all the snow. Unfortunately we won't be able to make it to your Dad's Memorial. Our condolences to all your family. Enjoy all the memories. ...Luv, Martha and Joe Boehm Good Morning John (Sr.): Thank you so much for sending us the information on Anne. We really appreciate it. We hope you and your family got through the day of the service. We have been thinking of all of you and will be in touch. Richard & Anna Strahl John (Sr.) - It was such a shock to hear about Anne. I had just talked to her before leaving for Florida and she said that she was having some problems but was getting them sorted out and could hardly wait to get back to day tours again. I've lost a good friend--but you've lost a life partner! Anne was always so upbeat and cheerful making everyone feel good!---- and that's how we will remember her. Thinking of you, John. Love Jean Edwards John - Sorry to hear about your Dad's passing and we're glad he's not in pain or suffering any more. We will see you at the gathering. Take care, love Pat & Alan Bennett Dear John (Jr.) & family: I was so very, very sorry and heartbroken to hear about your Mom's passing. Anne was a beautiful woman with a loving spirit that touched everyone around her. She was feisty, fun, a true friend, and absolutely full of heart. We have all lost a dear friend. It's comforting to know that she went peacefully in her sleep. I was relieved to hear that your Dad will be moving closer to family. Our thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. Take good care of each other. Love, Nancy & John Hopkins Hi John (Jr.): Very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I knew from your previous email that he wasn't doing well so it wasn't a complete surprise. Hard to believe he was 87 years young. He was quite a guy - tough as nails and a big softy too. He was a lucky man - 60 years with your wonderful mother and a loving family too. A life well lived! Be well - Nancy & John Hopkins Janie & I are deeply saddened with the news of Anne's passing. I knew her in the mid to late seventies when we both worked for Beaver Lumber in Willowdale. I know we have only kept in touch with Christmas cards, emails and one or two telephone calls, but as long as I have my memory she will remain a friend always. John Sr., my heart aches for you. While its been 30 years since we met at some Beaver function, I was really drawn to Anne and liked her for her warmth, caring and 'spunky' spirit. When we talked she always saw the bright side and put a positive spin on any situation. Take care John Sr., and if and when you may return to email, I would be honoured if I remained on your contacts list. Janie & George Birnie - Ajax, Ont. John (Jr.) - My wife Janie and I are very
sorry for your loss. We both knew Anne and John years ago through Beaver
Lumber over 30 years ago and while we never saw them again in person, we
continued to exchange Christmas cards, emails and talked on the phone over
the years. Once a friend, always a friend, even without seeing each other.
Your Dad was a wonderful man and we will miss him and cherish our memories. Janie
& George Birnie So sorry to hear (about your Dad) John. You are in my thoughts. Deborah Paris (Paris Marine)
Hi John and Marla - Sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Sounds like his
life was full and that he was blessed with a wonderful marriage and family.
Jan
and I send our regards and prayers. Bill and Jan Paris Good morning John.. I am sorry to hear of your father's passing. I lost both of my parents while I was still in my 30's. It's not an easy time to get through. All the best to you and your family. I will get in touch at a better time and we can catch up...Dave Coones Hi John (Jr) & Mr. Mayer (Sr.). Thank you so much for sending me this wonderful memorial of your mom. I was completely shocked and saddened by her passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy. "My Pal" as we always use to call each other, was the most cheerful person I have ever met, she was always smiling, and always positive about everything, including life. "Look on the bright side" she use to say to me whenever we talked at gatherings many years ago. Her positive attitude and cheer has taught me to think the same way about everything in my life, and I am so grateful for that. Although it has been many years since we had seen each other, we have been "Email Pal's" for quite some time. It has been a great pleasure knowing "My Pal", and I will miss her dearly. Teresa Schrank Please accept my condolences on the passing of your Dad. Steve Morey What a beautiful tribute you have made to your wonderful mother. We always enjoyed any time we spent in her presence. Anne was a very special person who was an absolute joy to know and be around. She is still with us in our memory of her and her spirit is watching everyone that she loved. One day we will be with her again and can once again enjoy her wonderful ways. Marty and Joan Mayer Marty and I extend to you and the rest of your family, our deepest sympathy at the loss of your beloved father. It is very hard to lose a parent. We were sorry that we couldn't attend your celebration of his life but both of us have been sick with a cold. Marty and Joan Mayer John - Just remember they will now be together again, never to be separated. They had a special bond that transcends their earthly life. You are a fortunate man for being a part of their life. Karen Kruschka Hi John : Heart felt condolences here on your dad's passing. He was a lucky man. I didn't get to know your dad but judging from you and your brother, he was a great man. Robert Seagrove John - I'm so sorry to hear that your Dad passed away. I'm in my 60's and there are still plenty of times I wish mine were around to talk to and ask questions. My prayers are with you. Rich Iarossi John - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, especially for your Dad and Mom. I hope that all your happy memories will soon overshadow your loss. Paul Peck May all your happy memories carry you through this. So glad your parents will be together again. What wonderful words spoken at your Mom's funeral. Something to remember! All the best John. Al & Peggy Cunningham |
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Below is a link to the Toronto Star notice where you can leave your condolences as well. http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/thestar/obituary.aspx?page=lifestory&pid=148291968 John Mayer (Jr) Real Estate Website www.jmayer.info - More family photos can be found here. John Mayer (Jr) Original Music Website www.megamarine.com/bigrock.htm |
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